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Saturday, November 23, 2013

Pastoral Ponderings ~ The Older Brother Syndrome

          In the biblical story commonly titled, “The Prodigal Son,”[1] two brothers are presented in their individually unique relationship to their Father. The younger son leaves home, squanders his inheritance, falls into poverty, and comes home with nothing more than the expectation that he could be a servant in his Father’s house. He is usually the center of the story.

          The older son continues to serve his Father devotedly, follow his Father’s plans, work in the things required to make their holdings profitable, and revolve his life around his Father and their estate. He is as central to the story as the younger brother is.

          The younger brother represents the “sinners” who were flocking to Jesus’ ministry in repentance and faith. They were the “lost” who had been “found”, as the two preceding parables also communicate. They were lost sheep coming home to their shepherd, lost coins returning to God’s treasured possession, lost sons returning to their Father.

          The older brother represents the religious elite, the Pharisees, Sadducees, Scribes, Rabbis, anyone who was putting their faith in their obedience to the Law, rather than the gracious gospel of the Messiah.[2] These people, clearly identified as religious hypocrites in many of Jesus’ teachings, had a distinctive view of their own relationship to their Father, along with a distinctive view of all the “sinners” in relationship to God. This led them to believe that Jesus could not possibly be their Messiah, since he appeared to approve of prostitutes, tax collectors, and drunks, and consistently showed up the religious leaders as fools.

          In this parable, Jesus summarized the older brother’s response to the younger brother’s return like this: “but he answered his father, ‘Look, these many years I have served you, and I never disobeyed your command, yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours came, who has devoured your property with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him!’[3]

          The Older Brother had an issue with entitlement, as he was sure his behavior warranted a better response than his inheritance-squandering little brother received. He did not understand that his Father’s focus was on the restoration of relationship, not a trophy wall for good conduct.

          Now, to get to the point, while the imagery of a loving Father longing for his sinful little rebels to come home stirs my heart, I relate much more to the prideful, self-centered, good-works-oriented older brother.  In a sense, we could say that the whole Prodigal Son parable was more for their sake (the prideful religious do-gooders) than the encouragement of all the prodigals who had already returned to the Father through their faith in Jesus.

          The older brother represents all the good church people who think that they form the inner core, and the “sinners” of faith are the fringe. These are the ones who resent a new Christian getting accolades for an “amazing” testimony of conversion, while their record of good service goes largely unnoticed.

          I could go on with examples, but I am really trying to describe more of a feeling. It is the feeling of injustice that someone else gets some kind of honor, or privilege, or status they clearly do not deserve due to a history of bad behavior, or bad association, while good ol’ me gets nothing at all.

          It really all comes down to an issue with the justice of God. It is a distorted, eyes-half-closed belief system. On one side, it sees God’s gracious blessings on the poor in spirit as an injustice. They simply do not deserve what they are getting. There is something seriously wrong with God if he does such good things to people who have treated him in such bad ways.

          On the other side, there is the belief that God simply does not give enough credit where credit is due. This prideful blindness sees every act of good behavior as if magnified through the Hubble space telescope. It has no reference to their own sinfulness, their failure to attain the true righteousness of God, or the myriad of mistakes and failures that litter their journey through life. They simply feel that God notices the wrong people, gives credit where it is not due, and constantly frustrates their goals of attaining acceptance through performance.

          While I heartily endorse the whole-counsel-of God preaching that includes calling the church to flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart,”[4] I also must accept any conviction of the word and the Spirit of God that exposes a law-based, good-works mindset in the church.

          Yes, some believers are doing better than others at living out the “obedience of faith”.[5] Yes, there are distinctions in levels of maturity. Yes, there are necessary “factions” between those in the church who are sinning and those who are obeying “in order that those who are genuine among you may be recognized.”[6] But, as soon anyone turns to a law-based, “I’m-better-because-I’m-gooder” mindset, we must run afresh to big brother Paul so we can feel his horrified perplexity[7] at people turning to a “different gospel”[8] that tries to mesh grace and good works into one message, and present any particular group in the church as the best performers of the will of God.

          If I haven’t been clear, what I’m trying to say is, this is all about me (and all the “good Christians” I represent). This is all about me as an individual Christian, one who has depended too long and hard on good behavior,  welcoming the convicting work of the word and the Spirit of God, welcoming the double-edged sword that convicts and comforts all those who receive it.

          This is all about “good Christians” surrendering to the work of God that makes us feel that our poverty of spirit is every bit as impoverished as that of anyone else who has ever fallen before the cross of Jesus Christ in repentance and faith. This is about well-behaved church-goers feeling as much mournfulness over our sinful condition as anyone else we have secretly (or not) judged as the “chief of sinners”.[9] This is about prideful, self-dependent religious zealots crying themselves into the meekness of acknowledging that we are just as unable to save ourselves as those wretched prostitutes, tax collectors, and drunks.[10] And, it is about longstanding members who have grown up in the church feeling the same hunger and thirst for righteousness as the worst of sinners have ever felt on their journey to Christ.[11]

          Today I am considering all the things Jesus accomplished for us through his death, primarily as identified by the twenty-eight worshipers of Revelation 5. There they sang this new song: Worthy are you to take the scroll and to open its seals, for you were slain, and by your blood you ransomed people for God from every tribe and language and people and nation, and you have made them a kingdom and priests to our God, and they shall reign on the earth.”[12]

          If that is what Jesus did for me, and for all the other sinners-turned-saints-by-grace that are in the church, then I want to experience, enjoy, and nurture fellowship with every believer in Jesus Christ I ever meet (in person or online!), without any sarky filters telling me I am better or worse than they are.

          All believers in Jesus Christ are part of the “one new man” Jesus has created out of the most diverse enemies of Jews and Gentiles.[13] To live worthy of this new identity,[14] I seek to humbly and eagerly “maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.”[15]The bond of peace is the cross of Christ that levels the playing field so that all who come to Christ are sinners saved by grace, saints who are set apart as holy unto the Lord through our experience of the gospel of Jesus Christ. The unity of the Spirit is the Spirit’s activity of uniting all believers into a maturing experience of our identity as this “one new man”, who is the body of Christ.

          Now that God has me turned in the right direction, my only concern today is to keep in step with the Holy Spirit[16] however he chooses to work in me “both to will and to work for his good pleasure. If I do my part of working out my salvation with fear and trembling, I can be sure that it will be a good day.

          From my heart,

          Monte
 
 
© 2013 Monte Vigh ~ Box 517, Merritt, BC, V1K 1B8 ~ in2freedom@gmail.com
Unless otherwise noted, Scriptures are from the English Standard Version (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version Copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a division of Good News Publishers.)
 
 
 

[1] Luke 15:11-32
[2] “Now the tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to hear him. And the Pharisees and the scribes grumbled, saying, ‘This man receives sinners and eats with them.’ So he told them this parable:” (Luke 15:1-3)
[3] Luke 15:29-30
[4] II Timothy 2:22
[5] Romans 1:5
[6] I Corinthians 11:19
[7] Galatians 4:20
[8] II Corinthians 11:4; Galatians 1:6
[9] Or “foremost” of sinners, as Paul described himself (I Timothy 1:15), which actually applies to one of those good  religious sinners, not those… you know… really BAD ones!
[10] This is a trilogy often used in the gospels to identify the sinners who were repenting and entering the kingdom of heaven  through faith in Jesus Christ. Cf Matthew 11:19; 21:31,32; Luke 7:34;
[11] Based on the Beatitudinal journey of Matthew 5:1-12
[12] Revelation 5:9-10
[13] Ephesians 2:15 and context
[14] Ephesians 4:1
[15] Ephesians 4:3
[16] 25 If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit. 26 Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another. (Galatians 5)

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