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Saturday, February 8, 2014

Pastoral Pings (Plus) ~ Love that Liberates from Anger and Rejection

          “There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.”[1]

          Today it occurred to me that there are two big fears that need to be dealt with. One is the fear of anger, and the other is the fear of rejection. Often these two fears stick together like two bullies at the playground. However, each one also works alone, so our consideration of these things allows for any way that these fears restrict our experience of perfect love.

          When God’s word says that there is no fear in love, it includes the elaboration that there is no fear of anger in the love of God, and no fear of rejection. On the other hand, when God says that his perfect love drives out fear, it also includes the wonderful truth that his perfect love drives out our fear of his anger and our fear of his rejection.

          It is interesting that there is this clarification that, “fear has to do with punishment”. Both anger and rejection are common experiences associated with punishment. Many of us know that, when we get in trouble with some people (even when we do not deserve punishment), we can expect them to get angry. We also know people who punish us with rejection if we do not do things their way.

          God makes it clear that anger and rejection are natural components of punishment. Everything we know about his view of punishment of the wicked includes him pouring out his wrath/anger against them, and rejecting them forever. Who can get around that?

          In fact, the very first time we are introduced to sin requiring punishment is in the third chapter of the Bible. God told Adam that if he ate from the one forbidden tree, humanity would die. When Adam ate from the tree, his eyes were opened, he realized that he was naked, he tried his own ineffective way to cover his nakedness, and he hid in the trees because his way of covering himself didn’t get rid of his shame, guilt, or fear.

          When God called to Adam, this is how Adam responded: “I heard the sound of you in the garden, and I was afraid, because I was naked, and I hid myself.”[2] This was the expression of what John wrote hundreds of years later, that fear has to do with punishment. Adam sinned, he knew he would be punished, so he hid in fear. The first expression of fear followed the first experience of sin.

          Part of the good news about Jesus Christ is that through his death he experienced all the wrath/anger against our sin that God would ever pour out, and he experienced all the rejection by the Father that we would ever have experienced had we remained in our sin. When God revels that Jesus is the one “whom God put forward as a propitiation by his blood, to be received by faith,”[3] he was telling us that Jesus was the one who took away the wrath of God by the shedding of his blood.

          On the cross, Jesus experienced all the wrath of God against all the sins of his brothers. All of it! When he said, “It is finished!”[4] it included this work of propitiation, that the pouring out of God’s wrath/anger against our sin was finished. For those who come to him by faith, there will never again be any anger against our sin. The sons of God will experience God disciplining us in love,[5] but never in anger.

          When Jesus groaned out from the cross, My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”[6] he was announcing for all the rest of time that he had experienced all the rejection his brothers have ever deserved from the Triune God. When he said, “It is finished!” it also included this wonderful reality, that God rejecting the people he was punishing was finished. Never again would there be the threat of rejection from God hanging over the heads of anyone who has faith in Jesus Christ.

          When God says that his perfect love drives out fear, and then contrasts this with punishment that always includes the fear of anger and rejection, it is to assure his children that his perfect love will drive out our fear of his anger, and our fear of his rejection. There is no fear in the experience of the love of God, so there is no fear of either of these two emotional bullies.

          What does this do to my heart? It makes it run into this light to soak up all the vitamin D of God’s love (God’s DELIGHT in his children, if you will), so that I can experience as much of this perfect love today as it is possible for someone like me to know and experience this side of heaven. If such a love as this is there, free for the taking (and God says it is), why not stand under the infinite stream that pours down from heaven so that I can be as satisfied in this love as a human soul can possibly be satisfied? Seems entirely reasonable to my heartbroken and hope-filled soul, if you ask me (and I am glad that you did!)

          From my heart,

          Monte
 

© 2014 Monte Vigh ~ Box 517, Merritt, BC, V1K 1B8 ~ in2freedom@gmail.com

Unless otherwise noted, Scriptures are from the English Standard Version (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version Copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a division of Good News Publishers.)


[1] I John 4:18
[2] Genesis 3:10
[3] Romans 3:25
[4] John 19:30
[5] Hebrews 12:6
[6] Mark 15:34

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