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Saturday, July 19, 2014

Pastoral Pings (Plus) ~ When Society’s Protectors Kill Themselves

          Just this morning I read of a retired RCMP officer from Edmonton who committed suicide. He had been a First Responder to the horrific beheading that had taken place on a Greyhound bus in 2008, and had never fully recovered from the trauma. This news story led to another where I discovered that there have been 13 First Responders who have taken their own lives in the past 10 weeks.
          These stories give us concern for how all of our emergency personnel are handling the trauma and tragedy they have witnessed in their line of duty. It is easy to forget that police officers, paramedics, firefighters, dispatchers, prison staff, ER doctors and nurses, all have an intensified view of the troubles and heartaches of our communities. The professional nature of their work also makes it too easy for them to hide how they are really doing.
          This shocking number of suicides shows that it is very difficult to know when someone has “had enough”, and cannot live with the nightmares any longer. It isn’t only about whether enough help is available, but also whether people know they can admit a need, and ask for the help that is provided.
          What stood out to me in these stories is that there are two things people are facing. One is the hidden effects of trauma, often identified as Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). The other is the accompanying hopelessness of the unrelenting nightmares and feelings the traumatic experiences have left behind.
          While there are many helps available if we can get people connected to them, I want to speak for a help that is available more readily than any others. In fact, there is a help available that so specifically addresses the overwhelming nature of the trauma, and also the unrelenting hopelessness that surrounds these experiences, that everyone must know it is available to all.
          The God who created us to live in the joy and safety of love relationship with him, has also done something about the consequences of us choosing to do otherwise. Life is traumatic and hopeless because we grow up in a world that experiences disconnect from our Creator, and the Savior who came to fix what we have broken.
          God sent his Son into our world as the ultimate First Responder. Jesus came to save us from all the problems we have created through our preference for sin, and our rejection of God’s place in our world. Through Jesus, God holds out a promise to anyone who will come to him, no matter how traumatized we have become.
          God’s promise is described like this: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds”.[1] Brokenhearted includes our part in our condition, that we have hurt ourselves through our sin. It also includes the world’s part in our condition, that many people and experiences have done a number on us. Either way, we need God’s help to get better.
          The fulfillment of God’s promise is presented to us in person. Jesus came with the invitation to experience the healing and comforting God provides. He still speaks today through these words, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest”.[2] Jesus came to us because we labor to deal with what is wrong with us. We feel heavily burdened with sin and its consequences. He has done something that will give the ultimate rest to the human soul. We now must come to him.
          These suicides have stirred up discussion and planning for how to connect the traumatized service members to adequate mental health support. We regularly hear of veterans of military activity experiencing difficulties handling the trauma they have witnessed, or experienced, and also having trouble getting the help they need. People working together to provide support is much needed, and a significant component of human beings helping one another.
          My contention is that, along with whatever other help is provided, and whatever the difficulties in helping enough people enough of the time, there is a Helper who is constantly available to everyone who comes to him. He has dealt with the curse and consequences of sin. He has defeated the source of all the murders, abuses, wars, and crimes that traumatize the human race. He has effected a cure for the effects of sin that leave us wounded, broken, and hopeless. He invites all of us to face the trauma we have experienced, and come to Jesus for the healing that meets the needs of all who receive it.
“I waited patiently for the Lord; he inclined to me and heard my cry.
He drew me up from the pit of destruction, out of the miry bog,
and set my feet upon a rock, making my steps secure.
He put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God.
Many will see and fear, and put their trust in the Lord.”[3]

© 2014 Monte Vigh ~ Box 517, Merritt, BC, V1K 1B8 ~ in2freedom@gmail.com
Unless otherwise noted, Scriptures are from the English Standard Version (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version Copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a division of Good News Publishers.)






[1] Psalm 147:3
[2] Matthew 11:28
[3] Psalm 40:1-3

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